Questions

• 1. Are you easy to get along with?
• I hope so
• 2. Are you outgoing or shy?
• A bit of both, i'm rather confident but then I can be incredibly timid
• 3. What kind of people are you attracted to?
• Hot ones 
• 4. Do you think you’ll be in a relationship two months from now?
• Who knows, i'm not too fussed about it 
• 5. Does talking about sex make you uncomfortable?
• No
• 6. What are your 5 favorite songs right now?
• - I'm a mess - Ed Sheeran
• - please, please, please let me get what I want - The Smiths
• - Asleep - The Smiths
• - Come on Eileen - Dexy's midnight runners 
• - The whole TFIOS album 
• 7. Do you have trust issues?
• sort of
• 8. Would you rather live without TV or music?
• TV, don't know how i'd live without music 
• 9. Describe your dream girl/guy?
• Francisco Lachowski. 
• 10. What are your favorite stores to shop in?
• Well NZ has bad shopping but, Country Road is my main then maybe Glassons?
• 11. If your being extremely quiet what does it mean?
• I'm sad, frustrated, worried, day dreaming or just thinking
• 12. One thing you wish you could change about yourself?
• I wish i didn't worry and overthink so much 
• 13. Favourite blog?
• Too many
• 14. Favourite colour?
• Orange, because black is a shade 
• 16. Mac or Pc and why?
• Mac because i just prefer the way it looks
• 15. Been arrested? For what?
• Never
• 17. Favourite food?
• HARDEST QUESTIONS burgers. 
• 18. How many pillows do you sleep with?
• I have a double bed so 1 on either side of the bed
• 19. Favourite video game/games?
• Just dance 
• 20. Favourite movie/movies?
• Too many, but Devil Wears Prada, Titanic, Confessions of a shopaholic, The Holiday, Tangled, Hunger Games, Divergent, TFIOS and The Avengers 
• 21. What colour shirt are you wearing?
• Grey
• 22. Is something irritating you right now?
• Not really, well i washed my hair and it's still really wet thats a but annoying 
• 23. Do you have trust issues?
• Haven't we answered this already?
• 24. Favourite book?
• Don't have one? I like so many
• 25. How tall are you?
• 5.10 1/2
• 26. Tea or Coffee?
• COFFEE
• 27. Where would you like to visit?
• New York, Greece, Paris (again), Vienna, London
• 29. Have you ever turned someone down?
• I don't think so..?
• 30. Favourite T.V. show/shows?
• Pretty Little Liars, Miranda, Big Bang Theory 
• 31. Do feel strongly about any issues, if so what?
• gay rights, I believe people should be able to love whoever the want 
• 32. Which fictional characters would you like to meet the most?
• So many, this question is very stressful but many of the princes from the disney movies like from tangled and the little mermaid 
• 33. Are you hard to get along with?
• Hope not
• 34. Do you want to get married?
• Yeah
• 35. What is your dream Job?
• Working at  fashion magazine in New York 
• 36. What kind of music do you like?
• A lot of kinds 
• 37. What are some things that scare you?
• I have a fear of pain, of the unknown and of natural disasters like tsunamis and also not being needed 
• 38. Who has influenced you the most?
• A lot of people, especially my friend Indy and my friend Matt
• 39. What are your favourite websites?
• Tumblr, Polyvore, Asos
• 40. What is the first thing you do in the morning?
• Wake up?
• 41. Do you prefer to talk or text?
• Talk of course 
• 42. What is your biggest turnoff?
• Piercings in certain places possibly? Or just being a general asshole i guess 
• 43. What is your biggest turnon?
• Look at Francisco lachowski - all that 
• 44. Do you ski or snowboard?
• Ski
• 45. What is your favourite kind of dog?
• Dalmatian 
• 46. What is your greatest skill?
• Dance? Or finding the best in people 
• 47. If you could change your whole name what would it be?
• I like my name, apart from my last name 
• 48. If you could have one superpower what would it be?
• TOO STRESSFUL I want to be invisible, then i want to fly and then i want to read minds I CAN'T DECIDE 
• 49. What is the weirdest thing you find attractive in a person?
• For a guy, big hands? Feel protective I guess. But personality wise, someone who loves food. 
• 50. What are you in university for?
• Not there yet my friend
• 
  
• Have a lovely week
• - Soph x

You Are The Writer Of Your Story

I believe that life is like a book. Each and every one of us have chapters that make up our lives, some longer than others, some joyous and others sad, but all other these chapters collate to make one book. If you imagine, the first chapter will be the creation of you, then the baby, then the toddler then chapter by chapter it will build up to this chapter, the chapter you are currently living. Now, we all regret things, there are always things we would like to forget but a writer doesn't write a book then tear out a few individual pages? Then the story would not make sense. You see all those hardships, all those times of embarrassment, sadness, loneliness are important, they lead to other moments, great moments, they help make the rest of your story, a quote from The Fault In Our Stars -  “Without pain, how could we know joy?". 

Think about it, what would be the name of this chapter of your life? The best days? The worst days? The day it all went wrong? The day I felt happy?  This chapter isn't the end of your book. You still have more chapters to go, you can't just end the story here. You have to turn the page, create a new chapter, create new moments and learn new things. Because all of these good and bad moments will make up a great book, and who doesn't want to look back on that book and be thankful that they didn't stop at a chapter half way through. 

You are the writer of your story. You make the choices. Make the most of this chapter and strive to make a new chapter. 

Okay?

Confessions Of A Shopaholic

Hello,

My name is Sophia and I am a shopaholic. 

I have been labeled a spender, I can't seem to walk into a store without coming out with something. 

"A man will never love you or treat you as well as a store. If a man doesn't fit, you can't exchange him seven days later for a gorgeous cashmere sweater. And a store always smells good. A store can awaken a lust for things you never even knew you needed. And when your fingers first grasp those shiny, new bags... oh yes... oh yes." - Rebecca Bloomwood in Confessions of a shopaholic

When I walk into a store and run my hands along those garments, I feel calm and collected. "That moment. That instant when your fingers curl round the handles of a shiny, uncreased bag—and all the gorgeous new things inside it become yours. What’s it like? It’s like going hungry for days, then cramming your mouth full of warm buttered toast. It’s like waking up and realizing it’s the weekend.  Everything else is blocked out of your mind. It’s pure, selfish pleasure" - confessions of a shopaholic 

You turn your head and you feel your heart melting, racing, an intense feeling of happiness rushes through you - that's the feeling most people get from a boyfriend or girlfriend or just a certain person they're in love with - me that's what I get when I see clothes, I don't have to go through the heart ache of being in love with 'someone' when i'm in love with 'something'.

Shopping is how I make myself feel better. When I'm upset or frustrated all I want to do is shop. And we're meant to do what makes up happy right? 

Shopping gives me a sense of control in a world full of chaos

And that's why I'm a shopaholic 

- Soph x